Category Archives: Northwest Region

I was like a tornado

Guest post by Quintina Chukes, peer specialist at the Apalachee Center in Tallahassee.

QuintinaActing out, rapid cycling, and extreme highs and lows are what I experienced every day. There were times that I thought I couldn’t achieve anything, go anywhere or even dream big dreams. I hit rock bottom after my mother passed away. I was like a tornado – I wanted to destroy everything in my path.

I checked myself into a safe place at the Apalachee Center. I was afraid and scared. The psychiatrist, mental health professionals and my caseworker made me feel better and helped shaped my road to recovery when I was diagnosed with Bipolar Type I Disorder.

After my mental break I decided I wanted more out of life.  I wanted to live, so I taught myself out of the GED book. Months later, after taking it only once, I passed the GED test and went off to college. I received an Associate’s degree from Tallahassee Community College then transferred to Florida State University. I finished my Political Science degree at FSU in one year and then went on to major in International Affairs with a minor in Public Administration, which I also finished in one year.

Now I’m a peer specialist at the Apalachee Center. I am where I want to be and I am helping people who are like me. When times get rough, seek help and just remember there are people in this world who suffer with some of the same mental illness as me. They have achieved their goals, gone many places and are still dreaming big dreams.

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Alone, sick and confused

Guest post by Dawn Shumaker Smith, DCF Circuit 1 Adult Protective Investigator Supervisor in Northwest Florida. This post is in recognition of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 15.

DCF responded to more than 64,000 reports of abuse of seniors and adults with disabilities last year. Many of the reports involve self-neglect, when vulnerable adults are no longer able to provide for their own health and safety. DCF helps them get the help they need and deserve.

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“… Food items in the pantry and refrigerator were moldy, old and spoiled …”

The Report: ­­

Escambia Adult Investigations received a report regarding a 62-year-old vulnerable lady with organic brain syndrome related to brain cancer. Chemotherapy further damaged her brain and caused severe short-term memory loss. She wanders away from home, gets lost, forgets to eat for days and gives shady people blank checks for unnecessary things. She walks away from the stove, forgetting she is cooking. She does not know where she is or where her children are. There are concerns for her safety and susceptibility for financial exploitation.

DCF investigates:

This remarkable lady’s history is stunning. She was a decorated naval officer, an activist and lover of her cats. She was an actress, even starring in a movie with Tom Cruise. She built an amazing career and never got married. She saved her money, invested well and became a millionaire. She adopted two children. But all was not well. She was living in California when she learned she had brain cancer. When her father became extremely ill, she packed up her kids for a quick trip to Pensacola visit with him.

It was not long after her arrival that her father, her only living blood relative, passed away. Days turned into weeks, weeks turned into months and before long, child protective services was knocking on her door about the children not being in school and missing appointments. She could not manage to get her thoughts to tell people she needed to make her way home to California. The missed appointments and other issues compounded, and the children were no longer able to safely remain in her care and were placed in a foster home. Her world was literally falling apart and she could not understand why. Her failing memory meant she could not comprehend her own limitations and what was happening around her.

DCF action:

Our Adult Protective Investigators reached out to her. It was apparent she was not eating, taking medication or paying bills. Valuable items were disappearing from the home, taken from her by people who were allegedly taking them to a charitable agency. Food items in the pantry and refrigerator were moldy, old and spoiled. Her clothes were falling off her.

Investigators decided that she needed to be removed from the home for her own safety but she had no family to care for her needs. The people that she had given blank checks to were the people she wanted to stay with. This wasn’t an option because it would have only further exposed her to financial exploitation. She didn’t have easy access to her bank accounts in California to pay sitters to help her remain safely at home but her accounts remained active. She was paying $1,000 a week for someone to care for her cats in California. She had paid $50,000 to replace a perfectly good kitchen floor in her father’s home simply because someone came to the door and offered to do it. We knew this woman needed medical attention and brought her to the hospital, where she was admitted for a few days.

In the meantime, our agency petitioned the courts for emergency protective services. We arranged for her admission to a local assisted living facility upon discharge from the hospital. We were happy to arrange supervised visitation with her children. Lutheran Services of Florida became her guardian and worked toward corralling her assets and ridding her of the seedy characters in her life. Under our protective supervision, she got better and became more accepting of her guardian. Our collective goal was to get her safely back into the community.

Her guardian made arrangements for 24-hour sitters, housekeepers and lawn care and turned the utilities back on at her father’s house. The home was filled with healthy and fresh food for her and the visiting children. It was time for her to return home, but not to California. She was, however, safely and securely back into a regular home environment. She could see her children once again regularly and was reunited with her pets to aid in her recovery.

Today, she remains at home with the help of 24-hour attendants and the support of Lutheran Services and her neighbors. Her medical needs are being met and slowing the progression of the disease. She can now hold her head high with pride for the remarkable progress she has made and the life she has lived.

This story is true, albeit unusual because this vulnerable adult had the financial resources and medical insurance to help pull her out. In many Adult Protective Services situations, that is not the case. Many vulnerable adults must choose between food and medication each month. Their choices sometimes have an immediate impact on their health. Frequently, family members are the alleged perpetrators, taking the liquid resources available. Often, DCF intervenes when adult children would rather have momma or grandpa home so they can use their Social Security checks instead of using their resources to meet their everyday needs. DCF’s Adult Protective Services ensures that obstacles encountered by the vulnerable adult are not permanent.

A vulnerable adult’s safety is so critically important. You can help. Take a stand in the fight against elder abuse.

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Making sure “farm-to-table” includes everybody’s table

Guest post by Sandy Veilleux, owner of Flora Bama Farms. FBF is a farmers market in Pensacola that recently installed free EBT-processing equipment from the Florida Department of Children and Families and U.S. Department of Agriculture.

Flora Bama Farms market

One Halloween when I was a child I volunteered to carve what seemed like hundreds of pumpkins. Why? To put them on the lights of the fire trucks and police cars as holiday décor for their patrols around the neighborhoods to keep residents safe. It was a pretty amazing – and unique – volunteer experience, and one my dad still likes to tell tall tales about.

The pumpkin effort was just one of the many volunteer activities I got myself into when I was young. My parents volunteered endless hours to help their community. It was instilled in me at a very young age that you always give back as much as you can.

Customers at Flora Bama Farms

Now, as an adult, what I know about most is food. So I am doing everything I can to find ways to make sure “farm-to-table” really includes everybody’s table. We want to stretch people’s money so they can eat really well and have the freshest food available.

Installing the free EBT-processing equipment from DCF and the USDA was just one quick way we can make it easier for people of all income levels to have access to great food – all while supporting local farmers! I just attach a bumper buddy to my iPhone and it’s done. It hooks up automatically to a printer, so it has been really easy to use. And did I mention it is FREE? Can’t get any better than that!

Our farmers Markets has partnered up with “Four Blades of Grass,” a chef based effort that provides fresh food to stuff backpacks for kids in school. Our kids are our future. You can’t grow minds on an empty stomach.

Flora Bama Farms yummy produce

These are just small ways we give back that are so easy for us to do because we know food. Giving people access to the things we know and the resources we have just makes sense.

I encourage all Florida farmers markets to take advantage of this free equipment. If your family is going to the market this weekend, be sure to ask if they accept EBT. It’s just one small way to make a huge difference in the health of your community.

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How a “Broken Man” got a new start at the RCC

Guest post by John Harker, current participant at the Tallahassee Renaissance Community Center. The center provides many services to the homeless, ranging from shower and laundry facilities to medical and educational needs.

A young man signs up to volunteer at RCC

I used to look like a skeleton. All I did was drink alcohol and not eat. The doctors told me I was bleeding inside and if I didn’t stop drinking I was going to die. But now, thanks to the Renaissance Center, my life is new and I’m grateful for the opportunity to get a new start.

I began drinking when I was 10 years old. My mother and father were alcoholics and they owned a bar, so alcohol was always around and available. I hit bottom earlier this year when I walked all the way from my daughter’s home in Midway to Tallahassee in order to get away from serious family problems.

I was homeless and had heard about the Renaissance Center, but I didn’t really know what it was. I just knew I had a lot of problems and I needed help, so I walked in. I was fed up with my life. I’ve tried so many other ways to stop drinking, too many to count. I was broken.

With the help of the Center, I took the first steps towards sobriety and self sufficiency. I worked to get an apartment through the “A Place Called Home” program with Ability 1st. I have a disability, so Ability 1st helped me figure out the process of applying for benefits. I went to a 12-step sobriety program. The encouragement of the Center’s staff helped me stay the course.

You’ve got to want help. I put all I had into learning how not to drink and how to live a new life. But I can have all this knowledge and it does me no good if I don’t use it. Wisdom is knowledge applied.

Now I’m proud of what I have accomplished. I’ve been sober a few months and I have an apartment now. I went to a graphic arts school and want to continue painting pictures, even if they are just to hang on the walls of my apartment.  It’s quiet around here, except on football game nights. I wouldn’t be where I am today without the Center. Now I have a future.

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Holiday Stresses May Come in Cute Dresses

Guest post by Bob Carton, licensed mental health counselor at the Employee Assistance Program at Tallahassee Memorial Hospital.

The holidays can be a stressful time. The simple act of finding the right dress for a gathering may become an ordeal for someone. Wearing the same new dress as your supervisor can be funny on a sitcom; however, it can be painful in real life – especially if a subordinate looks better than her boss in the dress.

Holidays by design are meant to be days when we break with routine custom and adopt a festive sensibility. We break diets, socialization patterns, spending practices and normal drinking customs. A holiday is a mini vacation from normal life. During such predictable breaks in our routines, one may find that we can easily lose constraint and wander too far from our normal disciplines. This may lead to loss of control and unwanted consequences, and these penalties may be costly to both our physical and mental wellbeing.

Think back on a festive feast at grandma’s house in days gone by. Plates filled with mounds of potatoes swimming in gravy, piles of turkey and ham, homemade breads and biscuits slathered in butter, with special dressings, festive veggies adorned with special sauces and garnishes, bright orange mounds of yams browned with marshmallow and pecan glazes. Who could pass up an extra helping of Aunt Millie’s magnificent pecan pie?  Huge amounts of energy are required to convert all that masticated mass into absorbed nutrients. (Now you know why you snoozed through the winning interception and touchdown while watching your favorite team during the holiday game.)

Your stomach muscle walls churn violently on one side of your stomach; clumps of food are thrown violently against the far wall, falling into a bubbling vat of acids and enzymes. All these solids on the move urge continued commands to drink fluids – how we respond to that thirst may help or hurt the process. Provided you didn’t eat so much that the remaining stomach contents take a reverse trip, the next leg of the journey will take you to the little room down the hall.

The meal described above may seem an exaggeration for some, while many will identify with the description for at least one holiday meal. The same way a tendency toward excess may push us toward overdoing the other holiday rituals we engage in; whether it is over consumption of alcohol, spending beyond safe limits, worrying about pleasing in-laws and friends who may have seemed impossible to satisfy. The stressors will compound and may build and couple themselves to memories of past holiday regrets. These excesses can take the joy out of any holiday season if we allow them to.

The remedy is planning: thinking how much money, time, energy, calories and socializing one can afford and still manage to retain a semblance of the meaning the holiday was intended to convey.

Put mental limits on all consumption and do your best to stay within your mental budgets. Retain a sense of joy and when the joy begins to fade, back off. Know there are people we can never please; let the Grinches go. There is no law saying you can’t start your own tradition more in keeping with your values, holding on to those features of holiday life that are meaningful to you and your family. Laugh, sing, breathe and don’t spend, eat or drink too much and this may be your best holiday yet.

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